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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah I will support my brother if he chooses to tell our mom. Thing is though I know it's likely she won't believe him causing all sorts of problems and our poor sister would be caught in the middle forced to choose sides. If I say I support him [b]mum will want to know why as the older brother I didn't say anything or how I can be sure[/b]. I just don't want to go there or think about any of it. It' s terrible but I wish he never came home from the hospital[/quote] This is victim blaming, and although it isn't right, it will absolutely happen (like a PP said). The questions isn't why did you say anything. You were a child. Where was she as a parent? I'm not saying you should actually say that to her. Just trying to point out how ridiculous it is when parents victim blame their own children who suffered abuse at the hands of their spouse. [/quote]
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