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[quote=Anonymous]I would get married again (after my alimony ends), but I could also be very happy just living with someone.

I questioned my own skills at judging people for a while after I found out about the cheating.  It was almost as if I didn't trust myself to choose the right person (because clearly I had failed at that the last time).  It took some time dating to be ready to allow myself to really jump into a relationship again.

I find that I am definitely more skeptical about guy's honesty now.  I'm pretty sure that some of the guys that my gut tells me are "sketchy" are probably nice guys, but I listen to my gut more now.  I have discovered that there are really wonderful, honest men out there.

I still enjoy seeing couples in love.  Seeing happily married friends makes me happy.  I was so terrified that I would become a bitter man-hater, but I am pleased to report that I am not.

My problem in relationships is that I am scared to get hurt that badly again.  I was devastated when I found out about the cheating.  I don't regret my marriage because my kids are the best thing ever, but I regret the effect that the cheating had on my self-confidence and trust in men.

I am definitely ready to love deeply and fully again!
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