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[quote=Anonymous]10 years later, I'm really not sure I would marry again. On the one hand, I would like to model for my kids that it is possible to have a healthy equal partnership. On the other hand, I really understand how risky it is to bring a male into my family unit (me and kids). I do not want to do anything that would introduce more instability into our lives. I think I would probably date for at least 3 years before committing to marriage again and during that time have many , many explicit conversations about money, sex, fidelity, work outside the home and work inside the home. I consider infidelity to be a form of serious emotional abuse, and I have taken a long time understanding the family of origin abuse that normalized some of the behavior of my ex. So, I would also be very quick to kick anyone to the curb who engaged in these kinds of pre-abusive behaviors. [/quote]
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