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[quote=Anonymous]My older sister is a very private person. I have two small children, and just found out my brother's wife is expecting. I was talking to my mom on the phone about how soon their place would be crawling with grandchildren, and that we just have to get my older sister to start trying, too. I said, I'm sure we won't know that she's even pregnant until the baby's born, bc she is so private. And my mom said, especially after losing the baby.

Apparently my sister had a miscarriage last year. My mom didn't find out until a few months ago.

I feel terrible. First, my mom shouldn't have told me. And, now that she did tell me, I don't know what to do with this information. As I mentioned, sister is very private and she clearly didn't want me to know. But, if I don't say anyone and she finds out that I did know, she might get offended.

What would you do in this situation. I feel terrible and want to offer her my sympathy but I also don't want to start anything that would offend her or make her feel bad. [/quote]

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