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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree that you need help in any case. ODD has always seemed like a really questionable diagnosis to me. [/quote]

Only questionable because you don't live it everyday.  Granted, doctors say it is too early to determine if DS has ODD or a mood disorder that may morph into something more serious with age.  OP, if you question ODD or contrarian, chances are the answer is contrarian.  ODD is not just when a child disagrees with a parent.  It is constant disagreement over almost everything- from food to homework to minor aspects of life---- challenging every rule.  A "disagreement" ranges from verbal arguments to destruction of property to physical altercations.  If your spouse did the same things as an ODD child, you could press charges or at least file for divorce.  With a child, treatment is therapy and medication and more therapy.  There are good days and bad days but I guarantee you that our good days would look like a bad day in a regular home.  ODD means that you always have a safety plan in the home and a backup plan if you desire to go out, even to run errands.  
http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/oppositional-defiant-disorder/basics/symptoms/con-20024559

We are prayerful that the intense therapies (including several hospitalizations) and medication will eventually help- before DS's behavior gets him locked up or worse.  And we rely heavily on support groups to get through daily life because it is like living in a war zone.   Always on edge because you never know what will set DS off.[/quote]

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