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[quote=Anonymous]Do things together as a group until you again feel confident leaving them with your kids. Maybe when they're 5 or 6 and can remind granny they need real food. Don't alienate them in the meantime. Include them. Perhaps leave them with your kids for short times (go out to see a movie while they're at your house for example) and then increase the time frame when it feels appropriate. Why you left someone like that with your child for 3+ days is beyond me. What you "deserve" for a break must be judged against the childcare you can reasonably find. If your MIL pressures you for more time with the kids then give in but stay present - so they get lots of time together, but with you nearby. And why couldn't your spouse take care of your child while you did your weekend away? [/quote]
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