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[quote=Anonymous]It's difficult to say- I wouldn't want someone who didn't want me. However, I also feel that marriage takes work- if we hadn't done all that we could to salvage it for ourselves and our kids, I would question whether it's the best move. Divorce is expensive, it can be ugly and mess up everyone's life. Sometimes the partner who wants the divorce really needs some help and doesn't know what to do. Giving up can seem easier in the moment, but a bad decision down the road. We went through this- my DH has some trouble connecting with people (and given some events in his life, there are good reasons for it). If my husband wanted to leave me for another woman, don't let the door hit him in the ass. Same if he was abusive. Also, even if a person has problems, you can't compel someone to stay when they really want to go. At some point, we accept that our spouse is entitled to their feelings and decisions even if we think they are making bad choices. [/quote]
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