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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is the type of woman who is quite primitive, in that if she is in the presence of a kind person - it motivates her, she will see it as an opportunity to attack that person. I simply grew tired of it, after years and years; and I fully encourage DH to see MIL by himself. If he feels he has to bring DC to see her, that is fine. I think they should know their grandmother, and form their own opinion. [/quote] I totally get that there are people like this. When they view someone as "weak" they attack that person. She views kind as weak. In this situation, with your DH and his issues and MIL's issues, you are not going to win by standing up for yourself, so I would suggest, kill her with kindness and limit your visits like pp suggested, to every third or so. View it as being there for your husband. I'm hoping your husband wakes up to the way he is treated, but pushing his in that direction won't work. [/quote]
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