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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The baby stays at home with your DH.  You fly out just for the wedding and be a bridesmaid.  You let her know that financially you won't be able to make multiple trips, but of course, being there for the wedding is the most important thing.[/quote]

Baby can't stay home; she can fly for free plus I will still be nursing occasionally.  I see her so little as it is working full-time, I don't want to go 4 days without seeing her. Also, SS will want to meet her. [/quote]

Why would you go four days without seeing her? Fly out the evening before the rehearsal (so you'll see her that day) or even the morning of the rehearsal day (so you'd see her that day), stay for the rehearsal day and wedding day, then fly out the next morning (so you see her that day too). Then you're only talking about not seeing her for one or two days.

Also, do you really think your stepsister would rather have none of you at the wedding than just you without the baby? The whole "SS will want to meet her" is a flimsy excuse.

When is the wedding?[/quote]

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