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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't people just fucking get a maid service?? Save your marriage. And don't tell me you don't have the money, it's cheaper than therapy and lawyers. [/quote] For us, it isn't the big stuff that a maid service would take care. It's the little, constant stuff. Maid isn't going to come in every night/every other night to pick up toys (in fact, you have to make the kids do that before the maid comes), no one is coming in a couple of times a day to to empty and load dishwasher, etc. These are the more annoying things to me. [/quote] Well, yeah, but if the maid is doing the other stuff, then you can spend the time you'd otherwise spend on that and, instead, use it to pick up toys, do the dishwasher -- [b]and still be doing less overall work.[/b] [/quote] That may be so, but my point is that the maid wouldn't alleviate our problem. The maid coming in three days from now is not going to help me get those dishes cleaned before bed. That's the kind of thing we fight about. It doesn't really matter if I tell myself that last Friday she came so I have less work - The fact is that after both of us work all day and I pick up the kids and make the dinner (that I shopped for) and put them down, I really want him to do the dishes to make the evening chores go faster. I don't need a maid, I need a second wife. [/quote]
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