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[quote=Anonymous]A huge fight.

So the holidays ended thank god. BIL is gone with his wife and toddler and newborn.

When he was here he continuously spoke down to my toddler and 7 yr old. And they truly didn't deserve it. He holds his,own children up,on a pedestal and thinks everyone should cater to them. Is my son was playing with 4 dinky cars quietly on a chair, and he scolded him for being loud. My 2 yr old was scared. Not be his nB was sleeping but bc I think he genuinely dislikes all children outside of his own. We were at my other BILs condo and I brought 4 cars for my toddle to play with and 3 babies for my daughter (newly weds with nothing kid friendly live here) and he actually snapped at me and told me not to bring toys next time. My kids were sitting in a corner quietly btw. They were stunned at each instance and of course my DH never told,him to STFU.
Incidences like this were non stop.

Now that he's gone do we bring it up? I am livid with how he spoke to me (I'm older than him btw) so,shouldn't there be a consideration? And also how he treated my young children. We would never dream of speaking to any child that way. And his toddler is far from perfect.

Do we talk to him directly? DH would , but he's uneasy doing it (his younger brother), talk to MIL who saw everything but did nothing either. This is her go.den child. I'm at the verge of not speaking to any of these ppl again. [/quote]

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