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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have in the past, but not for years. 
Female, 43, engaged.
I like smart, funny guys and to be honest, when I was younger I really liked older men. I got my MA in my early 20s and started teaching undergrads while working on my doctorate. I tended to get crushes on the brilliant visiting professors. I completely hero-worshipped them, doted on them, and never expected anything to actually happen.
I guess it's a combination of having one married professor seriously hit on me and [b]getting closer to their age that made me grow out of it.[/b] I got married and it never happened again.
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This is interesting. I am early 30s and have always been really attracted to much older guys...15-20 years older. I wondered if this was something that is outgrown, or if the age range just gets higher as the years go on....[/quote]

I wrote this. For me it didn't. At 17, I had a crush on a teacher who was late 40s-early 50s and my preferred age range stuck there. I grew out of the crushes and started dating men my own age, but I still found the guys in that age range the most attractive. I just got closer and closer to them in age. Now, I'm no longer at an age where anyone would pathologize it.[/quote]

Different poster here.  I have always liked older men, too.   I haven't grown out of it.  I'm 48 and like men in their 60s. [/quote]

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