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[quote=Anonymous]Is your brother mentally incompetent? Is he psychotic? If not, then -- do you think he somehow doesn't know that he's overweight and what that implies? Do you think he doesn't know that he's eating seconds and thirds -- that he's doing it in a trance like state? I truly don't understand what people mean when they say "say something." I think what you want to say is that I'm disgusted by you. You say you feel protective of him, but really, you want him to stop behavior you don't like and can't tolerate. OP, he's an adult. He sounds smart. He knows he's overweight. He knows that fat = unhealthy. What would you "say" to him that would be some magical formula. You bought him a Fitbit. What do you want from him? Perfection? If you truly felt protective of him, you would be feeling bad that he feels bad right now.[/quote]
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