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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We've been married for 10+ years. 2 young kids. DW is slowly letting herself go and gaining weight, not working out, eating like crap and complaining about gaining weight. She now has body issues and [b]does not look good naked[/b]. In 2015, we have had sex 6-8 times and another 4-6 times we had oral. I've made comments about [b]how important it is for me to have sex [/b]but she casually ignores it and/or says that she could go without sex indefinitely because[b] she does not feel sexy anymore[/b]. [b]I am no longer attracted by her[/b] because of the same crap she wears every weekend to not showering during the weekend (which I think is a way to keep me away). We both have full time jobs and we are tired at the end of the day. I am not saying we need to have sex every day, but once a weekend might be a nice change. Before you flame me, I help out around the house. We both cook for the kids, I clean and do the dishes. She does the laundry. I vacuum the apartment regularly, put the kids to bed every night. She does laundry and then help with night time routine like changing the kids. Kids are usually in bed by 9. After that, now a days I just watch TV or read a book and she just eats ice cream and is on facebook. She goes to bed and then I watch porn and take care of myself almost every night.

I need more than that. These days I watch all the beautiful women on the metro and in the city and start to wonder what it would be to like to have sex with them. I am ashamed to say that I have even considered using an escort so not to bother the DW. I don't want to leave but I am very frustrated and can't seem to get her out of this zone that she is in.

Any inputs of what you would do? Have you been through something like this? How did not deal with it? Did it end well?[/quote]

So you don't find your wife attractive, and you're wondering why she doesn't want to have sex?  You sound like you just want a hole to stick it in.

I'm not going to tell you to do more around the house.  I'm going to tell you that if you want your wife to feel sexy, you have to treat her like you find her desirable.  Like you really want to have sex [u]with her[/u], not just with anyone.  [/quote]

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