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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to get to a point where you know that you're going to be okay on your own. Counseling might help you work through it. Talk to a lawyer too to get an idea of what to expect legally. [/quote]

Agree.  Also, I realized that the agony of living in a constant state of "what should I do?" was slowly killing me.  I was really functional and hid my misery well, but once I decided to divorce the weight of my shoulders was incredible.  I've been divorced for a few years now and it was the best decision I have ever made.  I had three young kids so it wasn't easy, but the reality is, it was much easier than staying and living in (well-hidden) misery.

I highly recommend divorce.  I don't say that lightly and obviously it's not true for everyone.  When people were saying to me "I'm so sorry" about the divorce, I just wanted to shout "I'm not, it's awesome!"  And I'm not a flippant person.  It's just that as difficult as divorce is, it was way easier for me than living unhappily.  There are tough parts, of course, but overall I am far, far happier.[/quote]

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