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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn't a phenomenon limited to MILs/SILs and the wife, this is a pretty universal phenomenon of people displacing blame onto people who can't hurt them as much. Kind of like how when someone learns their spouse has had an affair, they often disproportionately blame the other partner while forgiving their spouse. It's much easier emotionally to blame the outsider for having ruined a lovely family dynamic than to admit the person you love dearly (your child) just isn't that interested in a relationship with you, and that lovely family dynamic never existed.[/quote] You clearly don't understand affairs.[/quote]
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