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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, I think with people like your ILs, it likely won't help. I have parents like this. My DH came into my life early on and thought...well clearly if we all just discuss things and let them know how we feel, things will get better. Because that's how normal, emotionally functional, self-aware people work. If you are dealing with people who are not these things, it won't work. He figured this out on his own time and in his own way. But he had to go through his own process to get there. BUT...I think it's very important to make the attempt to address the problems. Be honest (in a positive and respectful way) and see what happens. If it gets you nowhere, you will know you did your best and acted in good faith. And then you can move on to the next phase where you accept the relationship for what it is.[/quote] This to a t! Good luck op! We feel your pain![/quote]
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