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[quote=Anonymous]Because I have several years of experience watching him (and helping him) deal with setbacks and upsetting life events and I know what it looks like for him to deal v. wallow. (Some wallowing = A-OK and healthy, endless wallowing = problem.) I suggested counseling again this morning, and as usual he said there's no point because he can just talk to me. Maybe he finds our conversations helpful, but I usually end up finding them frustrating. I'm not a professional and I don't know how to help him understand things like it's okay to be upset, it doesn't help to stifle your feelings, it's not your fault that this process is so shitty, etc. I try, but there's a limit to what I can do.[/quote]
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