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[quote=Anonymous]How does your DS feel about this? Is it that he has no friends, or that he defines friendship differently/doesn't need as many interactions to feel content. As someone else asked-does he play alone or with others at recess? Does he talk to other kids? Is he choosing to withdraw because he can't relate? I think it's awesome you are getting help at school and trying to get more ideas. When you do playdates, do you keep them short and sweet? I have found playdates usually end happy if the kid comes over, they play briefly, there is a special snack, they play a little more and DONE. Little time for arguments or feeling too rejected. You monitor from a distance and if needed redirect if things aren't going well. Even better, you could do a short meet up- go to McDonalds or if your work schedule allows, meet up at the school playground afterschool or at a park on the weekend. Exercise boosts our mood so even if they don't play a lot together, just running around might make them both feel it was an OK playdate.[/quote]
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