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[quote=Anonymous]Having the ex-wife around can be touchy, sure. But I would work very hard on your own feelings about this, instead of trying to control other people. It's the way the grands get to see their grandchild at every holiday, regardless if their son has that holiday or not. In reality, it's really nice the ex-wife does this! It's a GOOD thing she gets along with his side of the family and that she's not invited when you are there. Would you feel better if she was invited on your DH's holidays? No. So this is a good compromise and you both don't have to see her. Focus on the child. Does it make the child happy and feel secure and loved? Yes. So swallow your feelings about this and convince your DH to do the same. He doesn't have to like it, but he also should not go on the warpath to stop it.[/quote]
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