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[quote=Anonymous]I am a person women, but also a lot of men, tend to not like. I never got it. Then one day a friend with whom I got off to a rocky start told me that when he first met me he thought I was a bitch. But, once he got to know me he realized I was actually really nice. I'm a pretty shy person around people I don't know. It takes me a while to warm up and not feel awkward around people. People interpret my resulting aloofness as me being stuck-up or bitchy or whatever. My sister has run into the same problem and been told the same thing. If there's one thing this taught me it's that first impressions really aren't the best thing on which to base your feelings about a person. Unfortunately, I think a lot of people do this. I figure, if you're a good person, a nice person, a good friend, etc. then it's their loss. People who get to know you will like you if you are overall a good person who is interesting and fun to be around, and those are the friends worth keeping. If you really just are a pill, then maybe you should take work on the character flaws that lead people to hate you. Or, if you don't care, then be who you are and be happy being hated. I will say though that anyone who thinks people hate them because they are beautiful, smart, talented, etc. is probably really conceited and full of themselves, and that's why people don't like them. There's a difference between confident and cocky, and being cocky definitely doesn't make people like a person.[/quote]

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