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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So do they ever act as a supervising adult?  Like if you and your DH goes off, can you EVER say, "Hey, sis/cuz, can you keep an eye on Larla and Larlo?  I am going to grab a quick nap?".  Or are they always gone?

My family (and my in-laws) do this, but it is more of an unspoken understanding that anyone that sees any child is justified in correcting them/keeping them safe, but you have to pull your weight, you know?  You can't disappear ALL of the damn time.

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Sadly, no...and frankly, with the way they are, I don't know that I'd really trust them to actually watch my kids while I took a walk or anything longer than a quick shower. For example, my older cousin was once "watching her kids" and my sister's kids while my sister napped before my family arrived. My sister and cousins were the only adults there at the time. When I arrived with my then-only child, I found my cousin asleep on the couch, the boys arguing in the back room, the toddler in the kitchen, and my sister's two girls upstairs unsupervised in the (finished) attic area where we keep toys, life jackets...and the old-style tie-on ice skates they were PLAYING WITH. It's just not worth it, and it's a very unbalanced dynamic.

My sister always takes umbrage when I correct her kids, which I only do when I think they are doing something dangerous.[/quote]

I read the OP, and pictured toddlers running around unsupervised by a lake, and was clearly horrified.  But here you seem horrified that kids, who were older than toddler age were alone in a finished room playing with toys and sporting equipment.  It makes me wonder if you're a hypervigilant parent who is judging other parents for not living up to your standards.

OP, can you clarify how old these kids are, and whether the parents are leaving them outside or inside and "expecting" you to watch them?  [/quote]

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