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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agreed, but also, the spouse who has/notices the problem has to take it upon him or herself to: 1) Discuss the problem and possible solutions with their spouse 2) Directly ask the spouse to intervene 3) [b]If the spouse will not do so, take matters into their own hands.[/b] I'm so tired of the DCUM Doormats 'n' Martyrs Club...[/quote] I did this, after I got over the initial shock of the crap that the IL's pulled. I think the ILs actually depended on their behavior being shocking, to someone with a totally different background (me). The IL's mistake came when they underestimated me, based on my "niceness". I can be ten times as retaliatory as I am nice. Deal with it. Yeah, they would have rather heard from DH, but I gave him that chance (more than once) and he failed to take it - so now you have to pay the piper. :) [/quote]
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