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[quote=Anonymous]You are not wrong, he is. Between needing to know first and cancelling her birthday because your SIL can't be there, it's pretty clear your MIL has some emotional health issues, and you shouldn't be held hostage by them. Your MIL had the opportunity to find out first in person (even if she didn't realize it), and she decided to cancel on you. It's not fair to you or your family for you to lose the opportunity to tell them in person just because your MIL is/will throw a temper tantrum. I would tell your husband you want to keep your plan to tell your family in person, and he can decide whether he wants to wait to tell his mother until he can do it in person, or tell her by phone or other means before you tell your family. After all, if a card is good enough for letting your family know, it should be good enough for his mother as well.[/quote]
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