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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the advice everyone, he does pay rent and he does work, he has a great job in fact. He was helping with household chores until he started working, DH and I clean every Sunday unless we have preplanned something else like being out of town but he doesn't contribute to the chores anymore despite my efforts to remind him he's a part of our home now and everyone has chores to do. I feel like he was stunted at teenage years. Our mother passed away when he was 12 and I was in college. I have always taken care of him so to speak, back to school clothes, extracurricular activities, he stayed with me every summer and DH and I have always lived places with extra room "just in case" he wanted to live with us. I blame this entirely on my father. My mother kept a beautiful home. Father did nothing, except sit on his butt all day in and out of jobs and I swear couldn't operate even a vacuum if you held a gun to his head. I don't want to kick brother out, I feel like he's not ready to live with anyone else, he has to be retaught everything. Maybe he has ADHD, DH does and they are very close. That could explain why DH gives him a pass, he is always saying he reminds him of himself. [/quote]
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