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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, there are a lot of variables, some more important than others, some more intrusive than others, some harder to think about: - how sick is she? Could this really be her last, or are you being overly dramatic? - what's the geographic split? - when you don't go, who does she spend Thanksgiving with? Will she be alone? (so maybe this won't be her last T-giving, but she's newly diagnosed and scared and shouldn't be alone). - Can you split up? You go to Mom, DH and DD go to inlaws? - do you split Christmas too, and will you do the same thing - sorry inlaws, mom is sick can't be with you? And easter? And summer? and next T-giving? Etc. Etc. What's the full picture? Figure out the balance and plan accordingly. [/quote]
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