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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My father (DD's grandfather) refuses to take off work to meet his new grandchild. He lives about 5 hrs away so would need to take some days to drive. It's his ONLY grandchild.

Dad is doing more than fine financially. Keeps bragging that "he will be rich in retirement"" since he saved every penny.  Has over 6 months of vacation saved because he never takes off --ever. And is retiring in a few months. H[b]e works a civil servant job with a very generous work/life balance philosophy-- one that he has never taken advantage of, even in emergencies.[/b]

How do I convince him that meeting your only grandchild warrants 3 days off work.  I'm not asking for weeks, just a few days to be part of the kids life.

Too much to ask?

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So... I'm confused. If he's never used this generous policy, even for an emergency before, why do you think he will suddenly change, especially at the end of his career?

Some people, especially men of the older generation view work as their "purpose" and have a very strong work ethic. I think more people should have it, really.

Also, some unions have added financial benefits at retirement for not utilizing time off policies/ sick days. Could be be maximizing that? Sounds like he has banked vacation days. You should be happy that he has sound finances for his future.

Grandchild will be around ... Well.. Probably will outlive him. Let him finish off his career and then visit. If it's really important to you, take grandchild to see him. No one should dictate someone else taking time of work, no matter the reason. 
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