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[quote=Anonymous]I was attracted to emotionally distant men because 1) my Dad was emotionally distant and 2) as long as they were emotionally distant, I didn't really have to risk anything. I didn't have to acknowledge that I was ambivalent about being in a close healthy relationship. I could fool myself about 'being in the game', without really having to be in it. Bottom line-it was all about me, not about them. BFF is like you and likes loser men who she can fix or be on the ground floor while the grow up. She married a man who was not as much of a loser as her past boyfriends, but he still was figuring out who he was. She wanted to mould him and help him become the person she knew he could be. 10 years later, he is pissed because he doesn't feel 'good enough'. And she is pissed because he didn't turn out the way she wanted him too. [/quote]
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