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[quote=Anonymous]Care less about her reaction to your boundary. Perhaps telling her that you don't want to hear about him and end any conversation she begins about him would help you. If she is an adult, she can manage that with you. I would have to back away from her. You may not need to cut her out of your life if she will respect your boundaries and not try to bring you into this sick situation. This means that you don't get involved in any way when he hurts and abuses her again. You aren't her crutch or therapist so she needs to find a way to have a relationship with you that leaves him out. Are your siblings minors? If not, why is that her reason for contacting him. [/quote]
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