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[quote=Anonymous]The only way to avoid hurt feelings is for these adults, particularly your DH, to not allow what your kids are doing to hurt their feelings. Your mom sounds a lot like mine in the way she interacts with your kids, and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I love that my kids have someone they are so comfortable with. I love that DH and I can go out of town and they can stay with someone who not only loves them almost as much as I do, but knows their routines and our rules and respects them. It's pretty much the grandparent situation everyone dreams of.

Your kids are 5 and 3, a little young to understand that their dad's feelings are hurt by how much they love their grandmother. Your DH is not too young to be responsible for his own feelings. I say this as a mom whose child wanted nothing to do with her (only Daddy for everything if Daddy was present) for two years. It was hard, but I had to keep reminding myself that she was a little kid, and would never act that way if she weren't completely secure in my love for her.[/quote]

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