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[quote=Anonymous]Again, do a cost-benefit analysis. Think about how many years of spousal support remain. Think about what is needed for getting jurisdiction over her, in any modification proceeding (things get more complicated when the parties live in different states, as is the case for you). The burden of proof will be yours for making the case for modification. You can't make a sustainable case based on suspicions. You will need to offer up evidence that will withstand scrutiny. Hiring a private investigator has been suggested, by other posters, several times here. Run the numbers, and also decide where your own intestinal fortitude stands in fighting the battle. You may well be 110% "right" about everything. But, this doesn't automatically equate with soldiering on into pitched warfare. Remember: cost-benefit analysis.[/quote]
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