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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]O.P. - on the one hand, we have the legal system. And, on the other hand, we have the often unfair, and painful, realities of unraveling a marriage. I'm posting here, not as a long-time (but now former) divorce lawyer but, rather as a divorcée. Sure, I know what the law says. And, I've also seen the ugly machinations of "the system." Ultimately, many of my own decisions were based on a cost-benefit analysis. Did I want us both impoverished from paying the lawyers to fight a war of attrition? Or, did I prefer to hold my nose as we signed-off on a deal which left us both a little "unhappy." Life isn't fair, and the divorce process is just one more element of unfairness. One upside for you is that you won't have a lifetime connection based on children. [/quote] OP here. Thanks! Given your experience would you say this to be true, or untrue: I was given advice to personally (sans Lawyer) file for a modification to support based on a change of circumstance (hers). I was told that she would basically be forced to prove she still required support and wasn't co-habitating. [/quote]
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