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[quote=Anonymous]You need a "time of, married-shared custody" arrangement. My DH and I do this. I've mentioned this on DCUM before. I just discovered both my sisters do this, too. Namely: If you both value time to do things that (a) are of interest to you and not your spouse and (b) are best done without children, then arrange a schedule so that you both have that time. And, yes, it should be equal. And no, neither should be tasked with an errand or job during that time. It really should be free time to use as you please. Sleep, see a movie, exercise, whatever. And, yes, you should schedule this on your calendars in advance. That's how you avoid bean-counting. Because it's planned and mutually agreed upon in advance, and therefore no counting of frijoles is necessary.[/quote]
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