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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're infertile, have tried multiple rounds of IVF, and husband does not want donor sperm or adoption. I'm 37 and feel like I'm at an impasse. We married with the expectation and understanding that we'd have kids together. But given the infertility and refusal to seek other ways to have kids, would it be crazy to get divorced? I'm just not sure I can see my future with my husband w/o kids, but he's perfectly happy with just the two of us.[/quote]

I get that you guys expected to have kids.  But sometimes, you don't get what you want.  Life has thrown you a curve ball.  It seems like your husband has been willing to make the extra effort to have kids, but has reached his (not unreasonable) limit.  He might just be tired of trying and worn out by the emotional ups and downs, and ready to make his peace with your life as it is.  If you don't want to be married to him unless you have kids, then I suppose you should leave him, but you should do so knowing that there is no guarantee that you will meet someone else and have kids with them.  If you would rather be divorced and childless than married to him, then you should divorce.  [/quote]

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