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[quote=Anonymous]ugh.  i am so sorry.  i went through infertility and multiple rounds of IVF.  so i can empathize somewhat with what you are going through.

honestly, at 37 years old, your window to divorce, remarry, and have a kid are pretty low.  remarry, sure.  but the kids thing...unless you adopt, or marry a man with children from a previous marriage, i would not count on it.

so...the question is, do you love your DH?  is he your best friend?  are you still attracted to him and the lifestyle that you have together?  i ask because even people who successfully have kids after infertility are more prone to drifting apart and not liking each other (BTDT, and a divorce lawyer confirmed that so many of her clients went through IVF, had a baby, and divorced a year later).  meaning - infertility is HELL on a  person and HELL on a couple.  and not everybody survives that.

i don't have an answer for you, but will say that while it is not a "wrong" reason to get divorced, you need to do it with your eyes open to reality.

if you are not working with a therapist i urge you to do so.  i wish i had found one a loong time ago while i was going through it all.  [/quote]

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