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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does any other Christian - or hell, anyone - really struggle with this? Because I do, and I need help. I'm in counseling and we've talked about it a little, but I can't come to any kind of firm conclusion. All my life I've been different. I've been bullied. Still am, a lot. I don't get a kind word from anyone. Yet Christ expects us to love those people - it's so hard. Anyone?[/quote]It's hard to love other people if you haven't been able to set limits with them. It's much easier to love other people from a position of strength. My relationship with my mother got a lot better when I told her that I didn't want to hear about how terrible my father was anymore and when I decided how long I wanted to visit her rather than letting her decide that. When I felt that she had less control over my and my emotions (it took a lot of work too), it was so much easier to be gracious to her because my sense of self was not on the line anymore. Good luck, OP, I hope things get better![/quote]
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