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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your fiance needs to talk to her and tell her to cut it out. If this wasn't something you and fiance ever discussed or planned to discuss, then don't let her push you on it.

You need to be on guard. If she's trying to do this--which is a VERY big deal--then she's capable of other things. It also shows that she has the expectation that your lives revolve around her. Which they shouldn't, and I hope they never do.

She sounds manipulative and I wouldn't put it past her to use her illness as an reason to blackmail you guys into having a kid before you're ready if she's doing this kind of thing. (And to be perfectly blunt, once she's dead she isn't going to be alive to remember your wedding or children.)

I would advise you to get premarital counseling, and bring up this specifically. I'm not saying you have a bad relationship, but counseling will help you guys put everything out there on the table and work through things (or learn how to) BEFORE you get married and BEFORE you have to put knowledge into action.
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You know all this . . .  How?  Holy overreaction, Batman.  [/quote]

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