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[quote=Anonymous]If you've got representative pictures up, I'd go ahead and reply if you're interested. But if this is your first time online dating, be aware that many men message ALL the women with absolutely zero intentions, or only the intentions of getting laid. If that turns out to be the case with some of them, please don't think your size has ANY bearing on that.

Here's my experience: Many guys over my year or so of  online dating go IMMEDIATELY to the sex after I respond to their polite, non-sexual first messages, or make plans and then never follow through. In my experience, it's a little less than 1/3 guys who ask me for a date, we never end up going on one. They just don't contact me the day of the date, or make up an excuse and then don't reschedule. I'm a size 8.

I wanted to say this because you're obviously conscious (but not self-conscious, which is awesome) about your size, and my BFF is a plus-size gal who was the same way. When shitty dates happened to her, she sometimes was prone to blame herself/her size, when, in my experience, that's not the case. Guys will flake on/only want sex from women of all proportions, especially online. [/quote]

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