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[quote=Anonymous]Several years ago, my cousin told me that our mutual grandfather did something really horrible. She said our grandmother told her the story in detail before she died. We've never mentioned it again, primarily because we live across the country from each other and don't chat very often.

Neither of us ever knew this grandfather, as he had died before we were born. However, in my mind, he has always had a larger-than-life persona. My mother and all aunts/ uncles etc of her generation adored him. Even in death, he was known as a family patriarch whom "everyone" thought highly of.

My mother is now in her 80's. She's in great health, but obviously, my time to ask her about this is limited. I have a real curiosity about it and would like to know more, as I think it would fill in some missing details in our family story. But I don't want to upset her unnecessarily and a part of me just thinks I should let the secrets go to the grave, so to speak.

Would you bring this up with your elderly mother, in this situation? [/quote]

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