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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep, on a girls trip to Puerto Rico. I was in a horrible marriage, extremely lonely and some guy at the bar started talking to me so nice, I'm hot, fun, sweet etc etc etc. My self esteem was so bad (a lot to do with my ex ALWAYS point out the stuff I did wrong in his eyes, which was mostly anything and everything I did or didn't do.)

I made out with the guy. Felt guilty as hell but it awoke something inside me, that I am desireable. I'm not a horrible person that my ex referred to me as. Long story short, this incident was the first step towards me getting the balls enough to leave my shitty marriage. I'm still friends with the dude today and I thank him for help start the ball rollling.  He knows his roll in it too, and he's proud of unwittingly helping me out. I told him a couple of years later and said thanks.

No regrets at all here.

I will say - I had been on numerous girls trips and while I may have flirted I never did anything. Felt too guilty, and at that point, I still loved my husband and he treated me good and I felt loved. Fast forward a few years and things change. I acknowledge I was in a very vulnerable state with that hook up happened. But what I do know, is that when I'm in a healthy relationship and communication is good, the idea of hooking up with a random dude is silly. And before that guy, NEVER was even on my radar. Go figure. :)[/quote]

Did you have sex with him?[/quote]

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