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[quote=Anonymous]Have you had any discussions with them about it? I would try to ask them what their expectations are so you know what you are dealing with? Are they expecting to see you every night for dinner that week? Take off work to be with them? If your kids are in childcare do they expect to be the childcare that week? I can't imagine that they would want to come for that week and hang out by themselves since they see that week as your week with you. I would be freaking out too. Ultimately, they can move regardless but I think you need to have conversations about it up front with your expectations highlighted so when they come and you aren't available 24/7 you can remind them that you said that. Maybe when they realize you aren't dropping everything for a week for them they won't idealize this plan so much. Can you start seeing your therapist again to discuss it?[/quote]
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