Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Done with my mother"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I had the same experience with my mom. I went to a counselor about it. He said... like all counselors, "how does it make you feel" I said, "guilty" He said, "so you can not change your mom, all you can do is decide to not feel guilty. She made her decision and you can change that. You can't make her a happier better person. So you either stop seeing her or you stop feeling guilty about what she says." I limit my contact when I can't control the feelings of guilt, but mostly I just go, don't really enjoy it but feel it is my duty as a daughter, then drink wine with friends and laugh about all the shitty things our moms say to us. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
