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[quote=Anonymous]My DD (college aged, very responsible) will be participating in a school sponsored program this summer out of state. No problem there!!
She wants to extend her plans and take a road trip/vacation afterwards ( we aren't having a family vacation this summer for a variety of reasons).
The problem is she wants her BF to join her on the vacation part.
I don't have a problem with her having a BF or even spending a vacation with one.
The problem I see is that he just doesn't seem all that involved, from what I can tell.
And maybe I'm being unfair. Please tell me if you think I am.
He lives in our town, and he and DD spend time together. But lately it doesn't seem as if he ever takes her on a real date: she is always driving off to meet up with him at a restaurant, friend's house, you get the picture.
I just question his commitment and whether a vacation together is a good idea.
Can I bring this up with DD? About the relationship itself or the travel plans? I'm thinking of just saying something like "why doesn't BF ever swing by and pick you up if you have you are getting together?" but of course that will put her on the defensive!
He just doesn't seem all that committed to the relationship and this would be a good time to spend time apart!
What can I do in this situation, please help! Should I MYOB or say something? [/quote]

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