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[quote=Anonymous]I told the people that I could lean on when things were sucky. Don't tell people that you wouldn't call at 2am crying. Not that you will call people at 2am crying. But that was my standard. If I don't feel safe enough to call you upset at 2am, then I'm not close enough to you to tell you all the emotional crap I'm going through. I was lucky that everyone I'm close to has gone through some form of ART. But I did have to tell one co-worker since it was just the 2 of us in the office and the absences were noticeable. I learned how to 'teach' him about what to say or not say. For instance, I just told him "please don't ask if we were successful or not. I will tell you if I'm pregnant. If I don't say anything thing, it means I wasn't." Or, "Please don't suggest adoption. We've explored adoption and it's not the right decision for us." [/quote]
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