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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To keep this short. My parents live in florida ( I was born and raised there), so my 2yr old DD has already been to Disney, as well as we know we will be going again probably many times in her life. Living in florida I grew up going often, and personally love Disney. DH never went to disney and his parents always made comments about a "waste" it was. However upon his MIL last visit she mentioned that this year they were looking to take his sister and her two children. Is it wrong to assume on family trips that grandparents pay for they should include ALL grandchildren ( my two as well)?  Yes--this is a constant with MIL very much so favoring the other 2 grandchildren, which usually I say nothing about ( other smaller trips, gifts, time spent..etc), however this seems like a bigger trip that should include all. Do i not say anything and let it go --would this upset you, or am I being overly sensitive.

I desperately do want my children to have a better relationship with her other grandparents, when they ask for gift ideas for anything all I ever ask for is for them to come and stay with us and spend time with DD and DS. I am always the one trying to call, face time and keep them "involved" in the kids lives. So yes I will admit part of this is that it sounds like a great/fun trip and I would enjoy it with my children/cousins as a great experience--but the bigger part is honestly just feeling as if we are not included/part of the family.[/quote]

When you write DD and DS, and then say your DD is 2, my assumption is that your DS is younger than 2.  Is that right?

Are the other kids also under 3?  I can't really imagine taking 4 kids under 3 to Disney.  [/quote]

I am actually pregnant ( due any day) with DS--so i added him into my post== as yes he would be about 6 months and DD would be 3.  The ticket for baby would be free and actually quite easy to take a baby to disney and the 3 year old I know would enjoy it ( she loved it at 2, imagine even more at 3 :))[/quote]

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