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[quote=Anonymous]And I'm pretty furious.

My son is in his late twenties and we don't ever interfere in his private life since he generally has it all together. The only time we know when he's dating someone is if it gets serious and he brings her home. His last serious girlfriend lasted 5 years, and DH and I LOVED her. She was everything I could've wanted in a daughter-in-law...I prayed that DS would propose to her but he ended up having some sort of "only one woman forever?" crisis and broke up with her. Now he's apparently falling in love with a stripper, because he wants to bring her home to dinner. We have a rule that he can't bring girls home to dinner unless there is something serious going on, so he's serious about this one.

I don't want to entertain a stripper in my home. I don't care how that sounds. I'm not a "hater", I don't hate them, but I just cannot see someone with that unstable, train wreck, permissive lifestyle ever integrating with our family. We're a nice bunch but the words "wholesome" and "pretty traditional" are a good way to describe us. I don't know what got into DS's head but I think this woman is just a representation of the instability going on in his own heart and mind and I wish he'd recognize that.

I know that if I tell DS that I don't want him to bring this girl home, he'll get upset and not talk to me for months. WWYD?[/quote]

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