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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Labeling is an excuse. Like it somehow explains the reasoning behind the behavior therefore it was this that and the other when in fact that person was really just a cold hateful pos. My opinion only. Same thing I see very often with the bi polar description. [/quote] Yet at the same time, people with bipolar/npd/bpd/etc often say this, or call people "armchair doctors," to take the heat off them - and dismiss the legitimate behavior characterizations about them. It's another tick in the tendency to manipulate box. I have a sibling that has behaviors that may fall into one of the above diagnoses, or maybe they're a complete POS. But I've reached a point where I just don't care what you want to call it, except not something I'm willing to put up with any longer. Done. Just completely done, not willing to negotiate with the volatility. It's been so much better for me. Sometimes you've gotta do what you gotta do to protect yourself, even if that means boxing and (possibly) mis-labeling someone's behavior (that's still really shitty no matter what you label it) to help you move forward. [/quote]
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