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[quote=Anonymous]My mom is married to her AP. They've been married for 20+ years, are not financially ruined, and for all intents and purposes, their marriage looks like any other long-time marriage. Us kids are not complete fuck ups (we all have good jobs, do interesting things, and are otherwise functional members of society), but I do think we all struggle with knowing how to act in our own relationships, having not had good role models growing up. I know I have guilt, shame, self-esteem, and commitment issues as well, but I try to keep those hidden. Holidays are hard. They are made harder by the fact that my dad is single, and I feel guilty if he is alone. Sometimes we do the holidays as one big family, but I feel awkward that my dad has to spend Christmas with his ex-wife's AP and his kids (and grandkids), just so that my dad can see his own children and grandchildren. So I guess, yes, my mom and stepdad had a successful affair, but not without consequences.[/quote]
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