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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, thanks for all of your thoughts. I was 12 when they split. For many years it didn't matter to me, but now that I have kids I wish there was a big family Christmas/Easter/whatever at Grandma's house like I had. Lots of aunts, uncles, cousins. All on good terms, no drama or weirdness. DH had this too. We both miss those extended family gatherings, hope to provide that for our kids & grandkids when the time comes. DH's parents make no effort. Mom does - we try, she tries, but it's always her current husband's agenda and she caters to him now. I've always tried to make things easy for her, smooth it over, not show the hurt; also wanted the kids to have a grandparent relationship. But I'm tired of playing that role - just want to leave it all in the past and do what's most convenient for us. Divorce really is herpes - yours for life.[/quote]
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