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[quote=Anonymous]OP - we are in extremely similar situations. I don't know your time period, but mine has been over a decade long relationship. My MIL, like yours, favors my DH's sister and her children and is very clear. She will say it openly to my kids sometimes and that was the last straw for me. She stays with us when she visits (uninvited) and I keep things very cold. I used to, like you, have conversations with her but I realized that she will never like me. So a few years ago, I chilled our relationship. She's noticed and thrown fits about it to DH but I maintain my coolness with her. It's the only way. Sometimes I want to crack and be "nicer" but I know her so well now that I know it's fruitless. Maintain what you've started; it will save your sanity.[/quote]
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